The Rules (or, the parameters for providing sensual and erotic discipline as part of a sexual relationship)

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These rules set out the parameters of the relationship between “The Top”, (xxxx) and “The Submissive” (xxxx).  The rules can be amended, at any time, by The Top, but The Submissive can only make suggestions for amendment and seek the agreement of The Top.

The Purpose

These rules are put in place to address both the poor behaviour of The Submissive including swearing and blaspheming, as well as general behavioural issues, together with providing sensual and erotic discipline as part of a sexual relationship.  They are agreed by both parties as being necessary and reasonable to address the issues set out in the Purpose.

  1. At all times, The Submissive will do as she is told, without question. If there is backchat or refusal to do as she is told, The Top will set out and administer a punishment of his choice.
  2. Punishment can be to any part of the body (apart from the head) and will be accepted immediately by The Submissive. Punishment will be administered by The Top at a time he decides (apart from during the Menstrual Period Cycle – MPC). If punishment is due to be administered during the MPC, it will be delayed until after that time.
  3. Punishment will be by open hand spanking or the use of any implement as The Top decides to use.
  4. Punishment will be in any position of The Submissive as The Top may decide.
  5. The Top will decide what, if any, clothes may be worn by The Submissive during her punishment.
  6. The Top can examine all parts of The Submissive’s body, checking for cleanliness.
  7. The Top will decide when sufficient punishment has been administered. He may outline the punishment before it commences if he desires.  Punishment will include Corner Time when The Top decrees.
  8. The Top, or others (male or female), may punish The Submissive as The Top decides and Rules 1-7 above, shall still apply.
  9. The Submissive will be a “three hole” Submissive and The Top can use any of the holes as he desires for his pleasure. This rule, like 8 above, can be delegated to other females to perform.
  10. The Submissive will provide oral or hand relief as The Top desires, to part or full completion, to any part of the Top as he decrees. The Submissive will also provide the same for females as the Top decrees. The Submissive will swallow ejaculate if instructed to.
  11. The Top may ejaculate on or in any part of The Submissive’s body.
  12. In company, The Submissive will seek permission to use the toilet. This permission maybe withheld if The Top desires. At times if The Top desires, he will watch The Submissive urinate.
  13. The Submissive will, at times of The Top’s choosing, be required to masturbate to completion whilst naked, in the presence of The Top and/or others, using any Toys and following any instructions that The Top may give.
  14. The Submissive will, at times, be required to be out without wearing underwear. The Top can ask her to display herself whilst in that state.
  15. The Submissive will, at all times, keep her pubic area free of bodily hair or, as a minimum, neatly trimmed. The Top can examine her as he wishes to ensure this rule is adhered to. The Top can also shave The Submissive, when he so desires.
  16. The Top can attach any clamps and or restraints to The Submissive either as punishment or as bodily adornments, at any time, for his pleasure.
  17. The safety of The Submissive will, at all times, be paramount and no long-term marks will be left on her body.
  18. A safeword will be discussed and agreed which can be used at any time during play by The Submissive and the play will stop immediately.
  19. The Submissive is not allowed to masturbate or arouse herself in anyway, without the prior permission of The Top.
  20. The Submissive must measure herself against all these rules and on a weekly basis, at the beginning of each week, she is to report to The Top about her behaviour and whether or not she has transgressed any of the above rules.

 

Signed……………………………………  The Top

 

Signed…………………………………….  The Submissive

 

Dated…………………………..

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